I have been following the octuplet thing since their birth and at first I was so impressed and intrigued but as time has gone on and the more information I hear about the woman (I will not call her mother because mothers put the needs of their children before their own and the title of mother is one of respect and honor and I have neither for this woman.) that birthed them, the more I am angered and disgusted! I feel like I am pretty opened minded about people and how they choose to live their lives and how they raise their children, however, This woman has pushed me to my limits and I do not feel That she is fit to raise these eight babies let alone the six she already has. In the interviews I have watched, the woman claims to have no help from the government but when reporters find that she is on food stamps and her children are on disability she says that those are programs to assist needy people not government assistance. It wouldn't even bother me if she was on government assistance, that is what it is there for, just be honest about it. Her whole demeanor just made me cringe in these interviews!
Because of this woman's selfish obsession to be a mother because she was not loved as a child, so many people will suffer! Her children of course will suffer. If this is a woman that will work double shifts to earn money for invetro while she already has SIX children, then she definitely is not using that money for their benefit or daily care. She spent over a hundred THOUSAND dollars on these procedures!!!! Money that could have went to food, housing, and other needful things to provide for her family. She has no job. She is totally dependant on her mother, her church, and volunteers. How long are those resources going to last? People can only give so much before they feel used. Plus, she was informed of the many potential health risks to those babies and she chose to go through with invetro anyway! Those babies will have lifelong struggles and delays and she was ok with that because of her fixation to have children. Not only will her children and her community suffer but millions of people who legitimately can not have children will be affected. Laws will be stricter, their chances of using more than two of their fertilized eggs will be lessened all because of this selfish woman! Oh it just burns me up!!! I think it would be in the children's best interests if they were removed from her home and placed for adoption to families that are both financially, emotionally, and mentally stable. I also think that the doctor that proformed these procedures should have his license revoked for his lack of ethics. Oh I could go on and on about this subject... It's just a sad story all the way around!
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Amen!!! I think it and it comes out on your blog!! We just had quite the heated discussion about this at work the other day!
I second that Amen!!!
and don't forget how she did this to be like angelino jolie! that's important isn't it... NOT!!!
thank you thank you thank you.
As a mom who can only have one.... you hit the nail on the head.
I love you!
I've been following this too and I feel the same. The thing that broke my heart was her youngest who has autism is getting zero treatment or help and like you said all the money spent for the invetro could have gone to their family and especially to special help for him. So sad. I'll be surprised if the babies don't get taken away due to her inability to care for the children. I'm there with ya girl. Not a good situation.
I usually don't get mad at other people for MY not being able to bear children. It really isn't their fault...but it is stories like these that get me mad. People who are ever so blessed to bear children (one way or another) and then willingly choose not to take care of them...that's when it burns me.
I agree....there are so many more deserving people of those babies. Oh well, weird things happen for weird reasons. Great post though!
couldn't agree more!!!!!!!!!!
Great Post! I agree 100% lady
Now that the media has exposed her, I'm sure DCFS will be watching things pretty closely. Hopefully.
I some what agree but at the same time she had no idea she would have 8 babies. I have some respect for her because she would not abort any of them, that was exteremly important to me. I think everyone can have opinons but leave the poor women alone. I'm sure she knows now she may have made a wrong choise. All I can say is it's not going to be easy for her or her kids but if she tries her best to be a mom good for her. I had truble having children at first too. Maybe she thought while she could have them way not try. I'm not totally for her having so many but at the same time why not. But if she can't take care of them maybe she will have made someone happy by giving them to a loving family how can't have children sense she knows what it is like to go though infertility herself.
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